“When we are no longer able to change a situation- we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor Frankl
We’ve all heard of post traumatic stress. It’s a response to severe adversity. There is another response known as post traumatic growth. It’s the ability to positively change as an outcome of one’s struggle and challenge. This concept was coined by two psychologists, Richard Tedeschi and Lawrence Calhoun from the University of North Carolina.
This is what fascinates me: how people move and grow beyond their adversities and manage to create a good life. I’m defining a ‘good’ life to mean a flourishing life filled with meaning and joy.
We must first believe that change is possible. This growth mindset sets us up for hope and hard work. We can develop ourselves, improve and enhance our abilities. We can discover strengths we never knew we had and certainly strengthen our existing ones by using them in new ways.
There are two main ingredients that promote this post traumatic growth response:
“The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain.” Kahlil Gibran
After getting through the initial acute mess of emotions, what can I do with what I’ve been through?
Thanks for stopping by. So do you think change is possible? Have you experienced some form of change or transformation?